An Unapologetic Decision To Prioritise Your Pleasure And Well-Being

Can you remember when you last prioritised your pleasure and well-being?

Take a moment and try to remember…

For many women, it’s been months, years, decades, and never. Because women tend to put everyone and everything before themselves.

If it’s been some time since you last prioritised your pleasure and well-being.

Why?

Maybe it’s…

Because you’ve never put yourself first, and it doesn’t feel right to do it now.

Because you’ve told yourself it really doesn’t matter. I don’t need it.

Because societies conditioning says women don’t need to pay to have their pleasure and sexual well-being met. They can go out and get a man. (If only this were true)

Because maybe you’ve never been made to feel safe enough. Never been asked what you like, what you don’t like. Never been given the time to explore your pleasure in ways you like.

It’s time to make an apologetic decision to prioritise your pleasure and well-being.

What I do know is, life is shorter than we think it is. Great health isn’t guaranteed forever, and none of us are getting any younger.

And more, our body craves pleasure, touch, and emotional connection. We don’t realise how much we’ve missed it, how much need it, how good it is for us, until we get it.

So stop putting up with a lack of pleasure in your life.

It’s okay to make an unapologetic decision to prioritise your pleasure and well-being.

Sam x